Men love to receive bl0.w j0bs, and it can be a disappointment if their partners are not willing to do this for them. Some women will hate giving you a bl0w j0b no matter what you try, and some might just need you to make a few changes. Here are a few reasons why she hates giving bl.0w j0bs and how you can turn things around.
You are not clean: If it’s been more than a couple of hours since your last shower, you’re not going to smell your best. Make sure you jump in the shower before you think anything is going to go down, that way you can be prepared for whatever might happen. Keep in mind that hair attracts odor, so if you don’t already, start trimming down there and you’ll look and smell much more appetizing.
You make her gag: One of the most common fears women have is gagging and choking when giving a bl0.w j0b. It can be nerve wracking for her, so STOP pushing her head down and NEVER force her to go deeper than she’s comfortable with, or you’ll only make her less likely to do it again in the future. That being said, there ARE some girls out there that actually enjoy gagging when giving 0r.al s-3x. It’s better to be safe than sorry, though, so unless she’s specifically asking for it, stay on the safe side and let her be in control.
You guilt her into giving you a bl0.w j0b: Begging isn’t s3xy. Head by guilt also tends to be pretty lousy. So just don’t do it! Instead, learn what makes her WANT (and even LOVE) to do it.
You don’t consider that your eja.cula.tion tastes terrible: If she’s going down on you, it’s because she wants to please and/or tease you. She knows that swallowing would please you too, but if you taste like sewer water (and most guys do), she’s not going to want it anywhere near her mouth. Ask her where she wants you to finish. Also never, EVER org.asm in her mouth without warning. If you do, getting bl.0w j0bs will be a thing of the past and you’ll only have yourself to blame.
You take way too long to finish: Head that lasts more than 10 minutes will probably result in a s0re jaw and a b0red girlfriend. Her position can become uncomfortable and at that point, she’s starting to wonder if you’re not enjoying yourself. All of this can make her begin to associate negative feelings to giving you 0ral s-3x and will only hurt your chances at getting more in the future.
You don’t give her enough feedback: This is without question the most important thing you need to keep in mind when receiving 0ral s-3x. If you’re acting like a dead fish who doesn’t move, m0an, or let her know how incredible she’s making you feel, she’s not going to have a good time. So many guys make this mistake, and it turns a fun old bl0.w j0b into a boring chore that she’ll want to get over with as quickly as possible.