Let’s say you’ve been careful about the people you date. In time, you’ll probably find yourself liking one person a lot. It looks like it’s getting serious.
If you find yourself moving in this direction, or if you are already in a serious relationship, here are other questions to think through and to talk about together:
1. Is our relationship about mutual trust? 2. Can we be ourselves when we’re together?
3. Are either of us overly possessive? 4. Do we regularly have good conversations?
5. Have we set physical limits? 6. Do we have dates that include our friends?
7. Do we plan how we’ll spend our time together? 8. Do we have a good understanding of what forgiveness means? 9. Can we disagree agreeably? 10. Do we keep God at the center?