This is all your need to do to keep a healthy relationship or a healthy life, if only you could choose or follow any of what am about to tell you below.. Please read with understanding and leave your comments.. 1. Not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season only few are for a life time. If it doesn’t work out don’t kill yourself because it was for something. Discover the purpose and move on. 2. Don’t give a man or a woman the totality of your heart before giving the totality of your heart to God. Love that person but put God first. 3. Don’t get carried away with beauty or money, if that person’s inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either. 4. Love is never enough, understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important.